How and when?
When you are in a situation that seems to be stagnant and one sided. and when it seems like its YOU who has been doing all the hard work and effort to ensure it will work out fine..and work out according to plan.
When is it do we say enough?
How do we know its time to let go?
When should we let go?
I scared myself a few weeks ago when I said to myself that I am ready to let go. Then i just brushed it off.
I guess it is normal for us to fear the unknown and the new ones.
I have to sign off now...my thoughts are everywhere.
xxx
2 comments:
Letting go is difficult. However, do ask yourself...what is it that you are letting go? past love? past hurt? painful memories? hurtful comments?
If you are hanging onto the above -- what for? do they make you happy?? They are only making you miserable!!! Life is too short to dwell on the past!! Let it go dear. Put the past where it belongs -- experience, history and in the museum!!! hehheh. Exploring the unknown is the ultimate adventure.
Now I want you to list down 10 things that make you happy. Write this in your next blog!!
I know what you mean... PRECISELY! All i can say is, "Tepuk dada, tanya selera"
NO ONE CAN DECIDE WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU! NO ONE KNOWS WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO GO THROUGH LIFE AS YOU! YOU DO - YOU MAKE YOUR OWN DECISION!
All the good advices you get, everything that makes sense comes your way, all these things you read, they won't help you IF you do not want it.
One has to be strong to make a decision. Take your time (for now only). Think about it. think how it is going to affect you. You should be thinking about YOU!
THEN, make a decision and stick to it. Dwelling on making a decision is NOT GOOD! it is going to pull you down!
For me, i have enough when things are just more troublesome than helpful. when it creates more headaches than help reduces it. Time for some thinking and reducing... though it hurts, but in the long run, Living alone is better than running and dragging through life. It is more 'fuel' and soul/effort efficent. and you fell better. I feel better (eventually)
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